When we make love there is no foreplay, and it’s all over within minutes. It is not pleasurable for me and I never think, “Wow, that was fantastic.”
He is pressing on with arranging our wedding but I can’t get up any enthusiasm. I don’t even know if I can stay faithful, though I know he’d be a great husband.
I love my fiancé but I also love good séx and he bores me in bed. Should I stay and just deal with being unsatisfied, or drop him because of my craving for better séx?
via Dear Deidre